Self Acceptance.

12:33:00 PM

Hello. How are you? Tell me c:

I have been thinking. For a long time. I mean, I think all the time, and i overthink. And now I'm overthinking if I'm overthinking the overthinking over overthinking and.. you get the idea. My point is, I've been thinking about this topic for a really long time. Also, reaaally quick before I start writing this post, I wanted to ask if somebody wants other types of posts from me? Like, I've been pretty serious and all that jazz but I'd really like to turn my blog & life around and try new shit. So, I guess I'm going to try writing new posts. I want original content and I want to make this a glimpse of my mind. But now, let's start with this.

So, what do I want to get out of this post?
 I just want to get it out there. I think life is a journey. And just like, let's say a regular going out. Some people go out and wait for something to entertain them , they wait either for something to happen, or rely on their wild friend, on alcohol, and sometimes even drugs. It's sad, honestly. When I go out, I make fun by myself. I try and succeed in having fun , no alcohol or other shit needed. Life is like that , in a way as well. Because there are people that wait for life to happen, wait for something or someone else to make their life a story worth telling. And then... there are people that make their life. I consider myself a type of person that makes their life what they want it to be.

Other thing is, we aren't entitled to shit! We feel like we deserve that huge mansion we want, that lamborghini aventador, that yamaha r1, that house in California... But do we though? Do we really deserve all these amazing stuff? If we aren't working towards our goals, no. We can't just lay around, be lazy, and then expect to park our Lamborghini out of our houses in Cali? Hell no. We need something we're passionate about that will bring us closer to our goals, no matter how BIG or small they are.

And what do we do when we don't have that perfect af life & lifestyle we oh so desperately want? We fall into such toxic mindsets, negative perceptions of ourselves & our lives, and next thing you know, we're depressed and not pleased with our lives. Then we feel jealous of the people that do have these amazing things, and seeing all that, we wonder if we're ever going to be as good as they are. But why be like someone else , when you can be yourself? Every one of those people you look up to has had bad times, has had times when they thought all has gone to shit, but they haven't given up, have they? Neither should you. I always go with this comparison. Think of a kid. A really young kid that's just now learning how to walk. It's fallen a couple hundred times to make two fucking steps. But it keeps trying and laughing. It's not afraid of failure. Not like we are. I don't know why, but as time goes by, we get more and more afraid , and then just go into a shell called the comfort zone, and then we don't experience life.

Well, here comes the purpose of self acceptance. Or acceptance in general. It's a simple, yet powerful thing. All the really successful people i know of, have accepted what they have, what they are. And always, fucking ALWAYS get out of their comfort zone. You can't do the same thing every single fucking day and expect tomorrow to be any different or better than today, right? And the cliche that we all know of is that it gets worse before it gets better? It's uncomfortable and not great before it gets enjoyable and awesome. So why are we afraid of feeling uncomfortable. Let's break the barrier, let's break the fear, because fear is just a fucking illusion. Let's accept who we are and what we have because that's the only way we can strive for better, by being grateful and happy with how things are atm, but work for them to be even better later. Be ourselves and accept that so we can be the best version of ourselves. Not better than someone else, better than the person we were yesterday.

I hope the message I wanted to get out through this post is out, and I hope you'll have a great day/night (:

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  1. Došla sam na tvoj blog, zanimljiv je. :) Želela bih da te zapratim, ali ne mogu. :( Uopšte mi ne pokazuje opciju da te zapratim. :( Mislim pokazuje mi čitaoce a ispod, gde treba da piše "Sledi" ili "Prati" nema ništa. :( Baš mi je žao. :(

    Napisala sam novi post, pa ako te zanima, pogledaj

  2. This is such a wonderful post and something that is so important for people to read. Though many of us strive to achieve certain things (maybe career goals or having a nice house), the best place to start is with loving ourselves. Once we love ourselves and are grateful for what we *do* have...other things start to fall into place.

  3. thanks for this. very inspiring :) Anyway, just dropping by to say hello all the way from the Philippines! I hope you can drop by my blog too and follow along if you like. Have a nice day! :)

    xoxo, rae


  4. I loved every message, it is important that we become strong to live well. Have a great day.

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  5. I like post and blog too.

  6. Self acceptance is super important, as it is self-love.
    have a nice day :)

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  7. This is such an inspiring post! I love the way you're thinking, amazing! :)
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  8. What brilliant quotes, I have a notebook where I save sayings like that so thank you!
    Have a lovely weekend :)
    Rosanna x
    Rose's Rooftop

  9. Amazing post! I follow you <3 It's your turn<3

  10. Świetny post <3 bardzo mi się podoba :* oraz super blog :) obserwuję i zostaję tu na dłużej :D zapraszam

  11. Predobro... Prosto me oduševljavaš svojim postovima. Pročitalam sam par posljednjih i ostala bez teksta. Učlanila sam se u blog, imaš moju podršku, samo tako nastavi! Što se ove teme tiče, u potpunosti se slažem sa tobom. ♥♥♥

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  12. Čoveče, sada prvi put vidim tvoj blog i toliko mi se sviđa! I izgled, i postovi, i sve. Smatram da da bismo prihvatili i pronašli sebe, prvo moramo da se dobro ophodimo i prihvatimo druge, i zaista se slažem sa tobom u svemu.

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  13. Uistinu imaš predivan blog, a ovom postu ne znam što da kažem. Predivno si napisala, uistinu. Pogledala sam i tvoje prijašnje postove, i mogu ti reći da samo tako nastaviš!
    Btw, ako želiš pogledaj i moj post "povratka".
    Također, zapratila sam te, pa ako bi i ti mogla učiniti isto na mom blogu.

  14. I love your way of thinking. I enjoyed reading your post today. life has its ups and downs that's why it is called LIFE :) we cannot expect to be happy, sad, desperate,or jealous all the time. we can have these feelings all at one or none at once. we have to try to get in control of our life or it will take control of us and leave us to disappear.

  15. Great post! I'm following you now and I hope that you'll follow me to.

  16. I like your post and your blog! I am your new follower now. :)
    Kisses from Croatia. <3

    What's up, Ivy?


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