The template for a "perfect" life.

10:20:00 AM

"Hope inspires people and makes them achieve sometimes impossible victories. Dark forces hate hope, and by all means they try to uproot hope from the hearts of people. When hope is cut off, man turns into a slave of dark forces or the slave of chaos. A hopeless person is like a trapped animal in the hands of his physical, emotional, and mental enemies " - Torkom Saraydarian
 I wanna talk about patience, expectations, timelines, fear, failure, success, wishing, doing...Kind of, a template that someone "in charge", whoever you believe it is, made. And yeah, the main thing I'm trying to do, the main purpose on blogger and on earth for me is to be real, to be honest, to be blunt, and to be myself no matter what. So, if you want to read my opinion on the template for a perfect life, go ahead, and I'm expecting you to comment yours, I'm interested in different people's perspectives. So, I guess I should just.. Start?
The template for a perfect life that is usually pushed on every human being ever since they can remember is kind of like this - you finish middle school, you finish high school, then you go to university, finish it, then immediately after, get a 9 to 5 job, meet "the one", get married, get a house, a car, kids, and then raise them... And then your kids do that.

But.. is that really all there is to it? I can just describe most people's expectations when it comes to life in two sentences? Isn't life more? Don't you want to stop being a slave? Stop being a slave of whoever the fuck is controlling your life? Whoever it is that you consider them? Don't you want more? Don't you want to have all your dreams come true? You do, don't you? But.. If you do, why aren't you fighting? Why aren't you fighting about what you want? Why don't you believe you'll get it? There's nothing you can't achieve. You just need to believe it, you need to get it in your mind that there's no other way but to achieve every single wish and every single dream of yours.
People usually blame failure, or what seems like it, on their conditions, on their family, relationships, laziness, something, basically anything but themselves. But hello, YOU are fortunate enough to have all these opportunities. You have the same 24 hours as people with disabilities who have made their dream come true, you have the same 24 hours as self made people, so why the hell are you so entitled to get something you didn't work to get? You don't deserve the best until you are your best. So why don't you do something about it? Why don't you become the most upgraded version of yourself?
You want the perfect body? Cherish your body, nourish your body, exercise, rest, be grateful for it and learn how to love it. You already have something beautiful you just need to realize it, accept it, appreciate it. Stop comparing yourself. Do what makes you better. But one thing I have to say - start today. And don't expect your body to change while you're on the couch, doing nothing but eating, most likely something that's called junk food. It's called junk food because there's junk in it, because it makes you feel like junk. Still, it's okay if you have days like that as long as the majority of the time, you're working towards your goal. Eventually , you'll be able to cut days like those out.
You want the perfect relationships? Do your part. Be the partner you want to have, and let your partner be themselves. Be picky with your partners just like you are with your selfies. Listen to your gut. And don't expect too much. Don't get disappointed in love just because you got your heart broken once. You want your family to be better? Be better towards them. Try finding the same language, the same page. You try your best. You want perfect friends? Be a perfect friend. Be someone who people can trust. Be humble, confident, be there for your friends. Be honest. Be the person you want to meet, and leave space for the right people in your life. Things will pan out and the right people will come. There's probably a reason that some people aren't in your life anymore. But if your life doesn't change, you're not growing. If you're not losing people and if you don't fail at something, you aren't growing. A beautiful plant took a lot of crap to grow, but now it's smelling good, looking good, having a great life. So take the crap as fertilizer and grow from it.
You want knowledge? Seek it. Live life. Life gives you so many lessons, you just need to have the balls to live it fully. You're going to seek it and through experience, you're going to get wiser. Listen. Live. Experience. Seek. Oh and also, you're using the internet right now, so don't say you don't have the opportunity. The internet is full of information, you just have to seek it. It's so perfectly set up for us, but.. most of us don't realize it.
You want to have the perfect house(s), car(s), job(s)?
Go out and seek for them. Imagine them. Believe in them. Prepare for them. And then - get them. Believe in being able to go to your dream job, and then going to your dream house in your dream car. That would feel amazing wouldn't it? Feel it. And keep that feeling. It's your thrive. Your passion. And I promise, it will feel 10 times better when you do get all that stuff.
So, you want the perfect life for you, don't you?
What are you most likely never to seek? Failure. I think that's a mistake. I think you should seek change. And through seeking change, you seek failure. But you are getting out of the thing called the comfort zone. If you stay in your comfort zone, so be it. Be a slave, but you will regret. You will regret all the lost opportunities, all the changes you've missed, because you were afraid of pursuing your dreams. That's what you need to think about.

Tomorrow isn't surely there. I mean, it probably is for planet Earth.  When you get comfortable, you don't seek change, when you don't seek change, you will not seek your goals, you will not seek greatness. Take a chance. Take a risk. Get out. Fail. You're maybe going to fail 5 times, but you're going to succeed if you get up 6 times. I hope you have a great day, and you get out of your seeming comfort. I love you. And I want you to fail. To get to success. To be strong. To be happy.

Have a nice day, and remember, not a single person in this world is fearless. But there's a limit that separates the strong and the weak. One of them face fears like the wolves they are, and some run from them like bunnies. 

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  1. Very good post, it makes you think a lot. I agree with the fact
    of experiencing everything as much as you can.

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    1. Yeah, my brain has been all over the place as of lately. <3

  2. This is a really great post. I think we often get sucked into the idea of wanting what we don't have....or not appreciating what we *do* have. Putting in the work and taking proactive steps to achieve our goals is important. So is taking time to be grateful for all of life's blessings!

    1. Thank you. We do , indeed. That's kind of the way we have all felt at some point in our life. Both are very important and much needed. <3

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  4. Love the motivation in this post babe and you've shared some really inspiring quotes as well, I'll be sure to keep them in mind! Hope you have a fabulous weekend! x

    1. Thank you honey! I hope they move you forward. Have a gorgeous one as well!

  5. Oh, thank you so much for this wonderful template!
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    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

  6. Sviđa mi se način na koji razmišljaš! Odličan post. :)

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  7. I comletly agree. For me life is way better than what most people think.

  8. Really love all these you've shared, indeed good things take time.

    Alisha Samson

  9. Great advices.
    I agree.

  10. Post je odličan i oduševljena sam njime.Iskreno,mislim da svako može ostvariti sve što želi,samo ako je spreman da se bori za to.Svaka čast.Svaki komentar je suvišan na ovaj post i odličnu poruku koju si htjela da nam preneseš putem njega.:) - novi post

  11. Great post, love it ♥

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  13. Very interesting post!

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  14. Such an interesting post.


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